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Archive for: Adoption Series
Becoming: With Cars, I Felt Strong
How the neighborhood "cool kid" showed style and persona buttress confidence from childhood to adulthood.
Becoming: Protest
Consequential missed opportunities from our past have a way of nudging us throughout our lives.
Becoming: Bigotry absorbed
Dad pulled up and, looking at us, rolled down the window. Not saying anything, he nodded and pulled away, cranking... View Article
Becoming: Dad is dead
“Your father died. Can you come help?” Shaking off sleep, I noticed it was raining. Raining hard. Her voice was... View Article
Becoming: The reading
“You must have separated from your parents when you were five or six.” I looked at Tom, pondering the thought.... View Article
Becoming: The session
“What can you tell me about your relationship with your family?” Strange is the first word that comes to mind.... View Article
Becoming: First love
“You mustn’t play with matches, you know that!” Mom’s lips tighten, eyebrows down, the crease between deepens, and I know... View Article
Becoming: The check
Heading home from my first day of second grade. The Alder and Maple are turning, but most leaves haven’t fallen.... View Article